VALENTINE'S DAY | ASK SPECIAL

• 1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
• I wouldn't say full blown crush, but i'm interested in some people
• 2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
• Yes, 100%
• 3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
• About 2 years
• 4: Have you ever changed for someone?
• Not completely, but adapted some things to make my partner feel most comfortable
• 5: How is your relationship with your ex?
• on bad terms with one, and still talk to the other every few days because he is my best friend
• 6: Have you ever been cheated on?
• I have not
• 7: Have you ever cheated?
• Not exactly- I am currently talking to/going on casual dates with two guys and i'm not sure they know about each other but that doesn't really constitute cheating
• 8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
• Most likely not, but I think it would depend on the person as well
• 9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
• Communication for sure
• 10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
• Serious relationships normally but right now i'm enjoying just going out and spending time with people I enjoy-- so i've been more into flings lately
• 11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
• I don't want that, but I think in some circumstances you can. I used to be super adamant on this, but maybe i'm not anymore because part of me still toys with the idea of getting back with my EX when/if he returns to the states-- I really did think I would marry him one day
• 12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
• I've never had a one night stand per say, but i've been sexual in a fleeting way (as in, not repeated or turned into a thing) with about 3~4 people
• 13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
• Not speaking my mind enough
• 14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
• 19
• 15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
• Not really, large age gaps don't sit well with me
• 16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
• Lust or interest, but not love
• 17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
• It depends on a lot of factors, but in short I don't see why not
• 18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
• Not showing emotion or communicating well
• 19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
• when they aren't the first thing you are thinking about in the morning, you don't still look at them with love
• 20: Are you currently in a relationship?
• I am not
• 21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
• I do. Kevin is still one of my dearest friends
• 22: Do you think people should date their friends?
• I do! I personally can only date people if I feel that I am comfortable with them on a friend level first
• 23: How many relationships have you had?
• 2 official (as in "hi I like you be my girlfriend" when I was 16), and then 2 unofficial (as in "I can't do a relationship right now, but then we stay together and act like boyfriend/girlfriend for years)
• 24: Do you think love can last forever?
• Honestly I do
• 25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
• No, because sometime love isn't enough
• 26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
• No
• 27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
• Don't be afraid to speak out and say what is on your mind, take chances and don't beat yourself up over things they are just as awkward as youi
• 28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
• Depends on how far-- within a few hour time difference sure but not to the other side of the world
• 29: What do you notice first about another person?
• Probably their laugh
• 30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
• I am straight but bi curious
• 31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
• No, it wouldn't because I do as well
• 32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
• I have, but we did not date for long and I am okay
• 33: Do you want to get married one day?
• If I find the right person
• 34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
• No
• 35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
• would depend on how much I like the person
• 36: Are you still a virgin?
• No
• 37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
• Looks initially, personality in the long run
• 38: Do you enjoy love films?
• Sometimes, I have to be in the right mood
• 39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
• I've received roses but not romantically
• 40: Have you ever had a valentine?
• I did when I was in High School if you count this guy (who I later dated for a brief period of time) asking me "Will you be my valentine?" and me saying yes and then us just texting for the rest of the day as having a valentine
• 41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
• Getting coffee or dinner, going on a walk, and then cuddling
• 42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
• It was a required reading in High School
• 43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
• I group partner and friends into the same level of importance
• 44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
• A little bit
• 45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
• Maybe? been casually sleeping at one of my guy friend's houses, and drunkenly making out, but I don't see him as boyfriend material
• 46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
• I don't believe in that term
• 47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
• Arianna and Pete Davidson (I swear if the news I read this morning about them breaking up is true I will be sad)
• 48: What's your favorite love song?
• I don't really have one, they all have similar lyrics and they get on my nerves to be honest
• 49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
• Yes
• 50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
• Because I keep saying no to the people who are asking
• 51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
• Poor but kind
• 52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
• I believe I am
• 53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
• I've found myself more jealous of couples when i've been in unofficial relationships
• 54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
• on facebook, not at all, between the two of you? relatively important to make sure you are always on the same page and things don't fade into obscurity
• 55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
• I can be a little jealous at times but only internally-- I never act out of jealousy because that is ridiculous. I don't get attracted to people romantically easily, but when I am and things become more serious between us I develop an attachment to them that is very strong (so a little clingy)
• 56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
• No
• 57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
• What kind of question is this? If a person is feeling suicidal it does not matter if the reason is "silly" by someone else's standards, they are feeling suicidal and need help
• 58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
• A mixture of both
• 59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
• No, am generally good with remembering dates
• 60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
• I can't do them
• 61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
• Equal importance
• 62: How do you define "cheating"?
• Having a romantic, sexual, and or physical relationship with someone else while being in a relationship
• 63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
• No
• 64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
• I think it is but at the same time it is kind of cute if you aren't cliché
• 65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
• Oh heck yeah I am so about cuddling